lesson learnt: sometimes doing things in the opposite way may results positively ^-^

hahax there are many stories that link to this phrase… but anw.. conclusion is that, not neccessarily doing the proper or the expected way is a good way cuz doing it in an indirect or opposite way could be a better choice =)

shortest e.g. is if a mother always shout her head off at a child for doing the wrong thing, the child may be immune to the shouting. however if the mother remain silence after the child did a wrong thing, the child may be terrified why isn’t the mother shouting at him/her and starts to worry if she will burst any moment… =)