very quickly, another month had passed…. lotsa work lotsa frustration but because of the quote i always use ” put in your best effort till bedtime and let tmr take care of itself” everything works out fine…
tho sometimes thinking bout it…. it fels tat tis sentence seems to be quite “irresponsible”… hmm….. as if you do not care bout the future and let tmr tc of itself… but sometimes… thinking bout the future really do was redundant…. esp whn ppl are talking bout the shifting of equator… bout the dooms day in 2012….. so i guess tis sentence stil make the most sense? hahax cuz… no matter wat.. if you put in the best effort everyday…. even if you did sth wrong in the future…. you wun accuse yourself for not putting enuff effort in the past ya?
but sometimes putting in the most effort everyday was really tiring.. =(( thus tat quote has tis word called “bedtime” there eh… haha makes you lok forward to bedtime after all the candyfloss or shit of the whole day… so… i shall proceed on to my lessons learnt now =)
lessons learnt:
if you put in you most effort ppl can see and will fel and will understand…. =)
so i made a magnificent powerpoint slides and liven up an entertaining atmosphere and put up my best lesson for the class i was being observed tat day. heartwarming-ly both my heads was impressed =D another class tat i taught the same thing they asked ” ms ng did you drew all these? @.@” and the answer is ” yes =) these are all created by ms ng drew and scan into the comp ^-^ ” this qn and the reaction they gave me was the best gift… as if they could tell how much i wanna bring this topic to them in such way =)
many a times doing too much is not necessary a gd thing…. =)
chinese have such idioms lik “do half complete all” haha something lik tat… hmmm sometimes becuz of ambitious, you did too much and the person/ppl you are telling it to will end up having too much things to absorb…. jus lik if i give you one candyfloss you will be really happy and will eat it happily but if i continuously give you more 2, 3, 4 you will not feel the happiness anymore and will think that it was such a burden to eat the 4th one…. too much is not necessary gd… the best is to noe wat the person/ppl you are giving it to NEEDS the most…. =)
ppl who luv you have their reason why they luv you. find the reason and dun do the rest of the things OUT of the reason and you wun get into any uneccesary trouble. (at the end of the day since those reasons tat will make ppl angry surely aren’t gd reason, y will you wanna do those things to make ppl angry?)
hahax long to explain… generally saying…. we are grown ups ya? you noe wats right and wats wrong you definitely do…. even thief noe tat they are called theives. you mean they dunno tat stealing is a crime? maybe they dunno but surely they noe taking things from ppl without asking is NOT RITE ya? so… since we noe wat ppl dun lik and those things aren’t right, what for putting ourselves into trouble…. and if you accidentally did it, what you have to do is……. for e.g. a thief stoles, and the next min he realised that wat he did was wrong what he’s suppose to do is report himself to the police… instead of kena caught in the camera and caught red handed eh… hmmm nt very sure whether my e.g. is understandable…
dun be too hard on yourself….
if you put all the blames on yourself (meaning you did wrong for all of them)…. now think about those blames tat you blamed yourself on… is it really your fault? well… some ppl can really go all around to say it is her fault tho… for e.g. the show tat i watch tat day… the mother… blame herself for all the wrongs her kids, her daughter in law and her mother in law do… she goes:
forgive me all ancestors… i did the family bad….. i never take the responsibility to hold it firmly upright…. i fail to teach my son… now tat he tel a big lie and put the whole family’s face down…. i fail to marry my son to a right daughter in law and now the daughter in law come endlessly to find us trouble.. i fail to teach my 2nd daughter in law well and she has to get my 2nd son to help her by stealing things from the family to help her…i fail to teach him stealing is wrong so he find it alright to steal…. i fail to put up the whole house reputation and now mother in law have to break the law and boldly hit the princess at the forehead out of anger and out of elderly taught… i fail to build up tis family is all my fault…..
and her kids, daughter in law and mother in law were all around her….. the kind of guilt is tremendous and they can’t do anything.. but it is a good way to teach them a lesson indeiretly tho…
always give youself at least 5 to 10 seconds before you do any action…
tis is atually quite important or rather.. very impt…. cuz jus to remind you that…. any small little action tat you do now.. will lead to any diffn in the future…. jus lik any lie you say will go to a bigger lie in the future. lets give the smallest e.g. you saw the iron it doesn’t looks hot but it was on so u KNOW tat it was hot and you touched it and tada…. it will leave an ugly mark on your poor hand for the whole of your life….. but of cuz tat mark will remind you about how stupid you once were…
alrighty lots more to say but cun rmb now … anw 3 more wks till practicum end =) happy or sad =( hmm……
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