=) alright!! really long since i last wrote here, almost 2 months! lotsa things happened of cuz and currently am having my practicum in zhss again! ^.^ heex but anw suddenly wanna write cuz i fel tat recently there r lotsa lessons learnt…. as i said everyday there is bound to hav a lesson to learn and for tis 2 months i had missed out dropping thm down here!! keke so here goes…. the lessons learnt tat i can rmb for these 2 months =)

Lessons Learnt :   =)

a great shower always make your foul mood better =D so after a horrible day, go and take a shower enjoy the water splashing on your skin and washing off your bad moods =)

bcuz i had jus showered, i felt so much better now after having a whole day of shits ( not literally shits tat i kena anw… ) shitty stuffs….. but well it is over now and i m fine =) and learnt more things…..

when sbd criticize your house and esp whn it is in progress of renovating say tis to them ” haiya next tym whn i sell this house to you thn you can go and do tat watever thing k? hahaha!” and tis makes both party fels better….

yap yap firstly you stop tat person from continuing his/her personal judgement and likings and 2ndly you din stop him/ her with her wonderful imaginations and 3rdly you fel better not shouting back at him/ her things lik ” EH! tis my house or ur house!?” lastly you are happy and she is not upset. =)

whn you are angry and you noe that if you act out, it will cause a disasters and sbd may die in your hand ( if you have a knife on your hand), jus kep quiet close your eyes take a deep breath open ur eyes quickly ( or else ppl will tot u are slp standing)

and listen to watever crap the person says but rmb! dun open your mouth except to let him/her finish whatever she/ he wanna say… if you stil wanna say sth… wait til she/he finish thn u say or better still jus kep quiet whn that person felt the silence, she/he noe tat she did sth wrong…… but u are in fault cuz wat u did is jus keping quiet… best of it is nod whn she/ he says and after she/he talks finish you can say things lik ” i can uds where you are moving to.” tat will do. so she will noe she and you are walking a diffn direction and if she continues, fine, be that way… you did the right thing already anw..

whn ppl give you suggestions and thoughts you may not agree immediately BUT wat you shld do immediately is thanks the person for his/her sharing. =)

i have a bad habit of saying huh or hmmm……. and hav a blank lok after ppl giv suggestion eh…. and i feel tat it is really not a very gd thing to do! what i could have done is ” wow gd idea eh! ok gd gd i will think about it =)) thank you!” cuz watever the person share with you he/she took the effort to think for you! so at least acknowledge the person’s effort and concerns. =) and what you shld do next is NOT to forget what the person suggest.. whatever ideas given are ideas tat may assists you! it is not very gd to say wow gd idea! and the next thing you just forget about it and just saying that for the sake of saying it. =)

your idea wil NEVER be the best idea EVER. yes…. (cuz if u always think about it, you have more rooms of improvement and tat you wun find yourself the best cuz finding yourself the best is a act of proudness and having the act of proudness will never lead you anywhere far. and to be honest, yes your idea will NEVER be the best idea ever cuz there will surely be someone elses better than yours ( yes… cont thinking it tis way cuz it is true))

humour is sth tat you shld have at ALL TIMES ^.^

going against sbd is always a thing not to be suggested…. even if tat person is a total bitch or a freaking ass hole. well jus say he is an asshole! (but in a diffn way of cuz) like saying ” you have such a great MENTOR you din invite him/her earlier!” the mentor is the bitch/asshole of cuz and tis wil make ppl laugh and take things easily. =) one more fren is much much better than one more enemy ya? =)

you may be older than sbd but not necessarily wiser.=))

tat is a totaly trueness….. believe me. if the young dude has been playing the violin for 10 years since he/she is 3, and you have been playing violin for 3 years since the age of 30, obviously who will play better? knock your head if you say the young dude and smack your head if you says the old geek. you mus be thinking tat dude play 10 years of cuz better lah! and since i say if you are older than sbd, u may not necessarily be wiser, of cuz i mus be supporting the young dude!! but NO!! not supporting anyone. but!! reminding ppl tat it is not necessarily years of experience tat make you better well you could have more experience of cuz but if you dun use your brain and THINK for 10 years you are doing the same thing you play the same twinkle little stars, but for 3 years tat geek can play bumble bee….. who use the brain more and take the effort to THINK?

if you are doing business and client want a whole new just renovated house to be tear down i repeat, a whole new JUST renovated house to be tear down, so long as they pay the sum of money again why not…….

jus heave a sigh and say o well! another business!! =)) cheers to it ^.^

thinking about future is a MUST! but wat leads you there is even more important NOW! ^.^

a rich guy tots…. in 3 years time i mus buy a lambo marry 4 pretty wives and 2 maids who can tc of my dozens of kids muahahaha and everyday he think sth new ” and i want a jaguzi in the balcony… and! a few yield of swimming pool ” and he continues everday ” AND! i want my house to be 4 storey high perhaps with a see thru lift and servant in the lift at all time” and he continues for 3 years….. but cuz he has been thinking for all tis 3 years… everyday everytime…. he neglected his job…. frm a marvel CEO he make the whole company bankrupt and he left his family business a demolished land…. on the thrid year…. all he can do is to cont his imagination……..

@_@ i shall work hard hard now no matter where i will b going in the future eh…. so long as i work hard i guess i wun regret wherever i m ya? =) and save as much as i can every month… cuz regardless if i go to degree or not i shld shld still save for future yes? =)

if you have any imperfections let it be! it may gone anw… =) but evern if it doesn’t does it matter? =) maybe you are fated to have tat cute piple scar at the middle of your cheek? ^.^

everyone have lots of imperfections some born with some gotten them as they grow… but it doesn’t matter how you gotten it! jus think tat perhaps u have to live with it jus live with it it doesn’t kill you ya? cuz if it does you wun be reading this! yes? so! wat if u lok at others and say how the hell i have such ugly scars yet she dun have….. wel… tats her business why do you care. if you lok lik her wat makes the diffn between the two of you? hmm? hmm?

when the whole world dun uds you… so long as there is one person understands…. tat person represent the whole world eh ^-^

even if tat person is you yourself… =) and!! most imptly if you have tis person who represent the whole world to you, the least thing you can do is not to let him worry about you =’)

p.s. last but not least jeanne is a blessed gal with a lovely bf ^-^ i love you dear =D i really do =’)