I learnt valuable lessons reacently =))

i attended the first lecture in my life tat i din fal aslp x) FYI it is 3 hours long i so hope that i have that lecturer to teach me! but too bad i will only see him once a week but that first lecture with him is good enough =) 

Lessons Learnt:

” boy see! if you dun study hard, you will grow up doing dirty job like this cleaner aunty!” 

i m sure many of us heard tat before i even experience it before. “dirty job” eh??cleaner aunty = dirty job?? dun study hard = grow up do dirty job = cleaner aunty???

to make clear, dirty job here meant unclean unpleasant environment… not those yellow kinda dirty. he was saying why does parents worry and fear so much bout their kids taking up dirty job? isnt being a cleaner aunty or a street sweeper a noble job? can you imagine a day without them?

it is actually not becuz they are worry tat doing the job will dirty their child but they are worry bout how ppl LOOK at their child! but… seriously, is there really anything wrong with it? wats wrong with cleaning the toilet or sweeping the streets? without them people are going to suffer! you wun dare yo use the toilet despite how urgent you are you wun walk on the street nt worry you will step onto sth unpleasant! so, the underlining reason tat you are afraid of your child taking up job lik tis becuz of the way you see the ppl doing the job! simple example:

if you treat your maid lik shit, of cuz you will be afraid tat if your child grow up to work as a maid they will be treated lik this too! 

so it is YOU who degraded the job and not tat the job is a humiliating. You find it humiliating to be one because YOU made it humiliating to be one. 

so next time whn parents point at a cleaner aunty to their kids and say ” see boy if you dun study hard you will grow up lik her a cleaner aunty” please… tell them wats wrong with being a cleaner aunty? without her you wun even have a pleasant place to do your businesses…

next lesson learnt which will be my aim as a teacher thru out my teaching life =) 

Make learning so fun that kids can’t wait to wake up, get off bed and go to school to attend your lesson!

wow! thats one hard one isn’t it? x) but yes i m going to work towards it cuz isn’t tat wat education is suppose to be? to make students learn happily? tats gonna be my motto =)) for real ^-^

So recent hong kong drama tat my family has been catching had pulled down the curtain and it teaches me these lessons =)

it doesn’t matter how your outer appearance affect your lover’s love to you. 

in this show the two actress hav tis special trading website which anyone can trade anything they wan! for e.g. i want beauty so they will accept your request and ask for sth in return say for e.g your wealth… so wat will happen is you will slowly become poorer and poorer but you become prettier one day after another =) fair? yes very fair ^-^ so these two actresses admired each other’s life so they exchanged position! actress A will become Actress B and vice versa. i m going to simplify the the confusing part by simply making it like this: Actress A become Actress B in the outer appearance and Actress B has the outer appearance of Actress A. in another words they exchange their outlook appearance.  

However, what happened is that after they change character their husband still ended up falling for them! cuz they get to interact with their wife and realise tat they love her personality more than who their “wife” is now ( cuz in reality the wife they have now is another woman remember?) so it doens’t matter how if your outlook changes what your lover loves about you s who you are inside =) 

more money doesn’t mean more happiness

so one of the actor in this show found out this trading website and traded this: 20 years of youth and heath  for money and success.

hey! isn’t it the same if you dun use the trading website? whoever being too obsessed with making money does truely take away his/her youth and health quickly! is a tit for tat isn’t it? so here links to the next point

you don’t need help from anything if you want to achieve what you want. 

afew years after the main actress, wife of the main actor passed away, the actor incidentally surf upon tat trading web again. and at the same time he saw a lady who looks exactly lik his wife walking pass him! he now had an option to get his wife back by trading sth!

the actor quickly typed that he want his wife and willing to trade with anything. i m not sure wat he traded for and the drama didn’t shw whether he really did press the button to accept the trading anot… but!

the drama ended with him standing beside tat lady one fine day and she really happens to act totally lik his wife.

here is a option for the viewers to guess whether or not he did press the button or not x) he could have but he may not too!

i chose to think tat he din press the button and decided to use his own might to “find back his wife” =) so long as you have a will and perseverance,  nth is impossible ^-^ 

haha cute ad. if it really does magically work if you take it eh =l  Take what you need…. wat i need now i guess is smoothness in whatever i do? and genuine happiness….  genuine happiness aside, lets talk bout smoothness… nth seems to be smooth for me recently -.- how irritating…. andrew matthews is so right to say ” Every ‘disaster’ in your life is not so much a disaster, as a situation waiting for you to change your mind about it. “  is hard to swallow wat he says above but lets try it here… no harm trying ya? lets start  FIRST “disaster” - Newly bought oven with a spoilt timer.  we happily bought an oven on sales last saturday. actually wanted to buy X brand cuz tats the oven tong lei have in her house tat we used last wk to make lovely cupcakes. but we saw this Y brand beside it and it looks more promising than the X brand and slightly bigger so we bought it. excitedly we set it up and preheat and it looks great in our kitchen. on the light on the temp set the timer and leave it there… after half an hour no bell rings from the oven whn it s suppose to ring in 10 mins time… went to check it and realise the timer din move a single bit! no ticking sound either! we tried it again and concluded tat it is spoilt. our first thought- do we have warranty card? ya we do have! shall bring it for service! or change one with them.  so we leave it there… till mon i bring it to the service shop all by myself and they say they will change the timer for us. i was sad tat they wun change a new one. but anw changing the timer shld be fine.  5 days later which is today it is mended! went all the way to the service shop and check and bring it back. FYI the service shop is not near frm where we live…. anw… so finally happpily set it up, do all the neccesary and everything is working well! for 10 mins…  i do a 20 mins one after it ring and BUM! problem…. again….. the timer stops at 10mins and dun move anymore though ticking continues….. irritated… frm being able to bake cupcake a week ago till now stil worry bout the stupid timer….. it is real disappointment…  Change my thinking: well… at least we finally have an oven now! after those two super big useless built in one that we stored long time ago and the other one taken from aunt. hmmm i definitely do learn something here ya? treat it as a lesson learnt.  Lesson learnt:  bf was right we should have bring it to where we bought it and do a one to one exchange since the road show is still on!!! highly possible we can do tat thought metro dun really sell this kinda electronical thingies one but hey! we bought it here it has problem here we are…. where it was bought there it should be return if faulty when first used……  SECOND “disaster” - new singtel modem wireless lost connection consistently…  either blurly or without too much thinking my mummy my sister and i agreed tat singtel guy who came knocking at our door ard 9pm to change to the latest modem which provide free mio tv and watever 200mbps for internet connection…  happily use the new wireless connection after it was installed yest and BUM! the connection was damn idiotic… it either go to 3 bars most of the time, which we stil can bear with it, it sometimes goes to one bar, which is getting somehow irritaitng for us becuz the internet is really slow in one bar,  or LOST CONNECTION! that is DAMN IRRITATING!  we have to go down off on all the switch linking to tat damn modem and wait for connection to appear again….. from thinking tat we can have a much much faster internet connection to now tis freaking slow connection tat may break anytime…… tat s reallly disappiointing…..  Change my thinking: at least… i still have internet to use now ya? good enough to allow me to blog means still bearable… than those ppl who dun have interenet at all or who have a super duper slow modem tat will took them a whole day to load. and ah ha! more lessons to learn here. Lesson Learnt:  If everything is stil working fine…. dun change it unless you cannot bear with its flaws anymore. which in our case, ya the connection recently before this modem is installed is really slightly slower than whn it was in its best speed so we thought changing could help make it better…. but not NOW tat it is worse than before! whn it gives us even more trouble….  ask carefully if this latest thingy suits you…. this applies to many things actually. i did use this on some client recently i rmb.. or tat i mention it to someone else. some of the clients who wanna reno their house needa chose the paint for the wall and the laminates for the furniture and they will ask for the latest design, but helo…. if the latest design is flowery bright and you actually prefer cozier simplified pattern you will rather chose the old laminates, which are still very nice and appealing or chose this bright flowery design tat you will totally get sick and tired of? latest design is jus to inform you that hey! we have this design in the family so now there s more design to consider and not tat you need the latest design…. same goes to clothes and many things else.  back to our case. this new modem have to be put downstairs near the fibre optic whatever thingy, but all the computers and laptops that need this wireless connection from the modem is all at the second floor! and the only way to have the fastest speed is to use the lan cable to connect to the modem but wireless can only get a max of  70mbps! more than half slower than the 200 mbps you can get from the lan cable which we dun use now beuz modem is downstairs and computers/ laptops are all upstairs…. so now we really rather hav our old modem back……  THIRD “disaster” - Renovated room STILL cannot finish putting whatever needed to be put in…. i finally renovated my room!! damn awesome it appears almost 90 percent of how i thought it will look like =) but… it still doesnt have enough space for me to put store all my artworks and some more things!  Change my thinking: well at least i have a super nice room now if i dun think bout those things tat can’t be stored. =) i am all ready for school! and yes i definitely learn sth here and sth to remind my clients ( my daddy clients i mean, it the same anw)  Lesson learnt: always bring out ALL the things you wanna kep in the room and make sure the measurements on the draft is enough for you to store everything smartly.  check, double check and triple check esp if the job is a big big one.  alright… tats about all… well it seems to work ya? =)

haha cute ad. if it really does magically work if you take it eh =l 

Take what you need…. wat i need now i guess is smoothness in whatever i do? and genuine happiness…. 

genuine happiness aside, lets talk bout smoothness… nth seems to be smooth for me recently -.- how irritating….

andrew matthews is so right to say ” Every ‘disaster’ in your life is not so much a disaster, as a situation waiting for you to change your mind about it. “ 

is hard to swallow wat he says above but lets try it here… no harm trying ya? lets start 

FIRST “disaster” - Newly bought oven with a spoilt timer. 

we happily bought an oven on sales last saturday. actually wanted to buy X brand cuz tats the oven tong lei have in her house tat we used last wk to make lovely cupcakes. but we saw this Y brand beside it and it looks more promising than the X brand and slightly bigger so we bought it. excitedly we set it up and preheat and it looks great in our kitchen. on the light on the temp set the timer and leave it there… after half an hour no bell rings from the oven whn it s suppose to ring in 10 mins time… went to check it and realise the timer din move a single bit! no ticking sound either! we tried it again and concluded tat it is spoilt.

our first thought- do we have warranty card? ya we do have! shall bring it for service! or change one with them. 

so we leave it there… till mon i bring it to the service shop all by myself and they say they will change the timer for us. i was sad tat they wun change a new one. but anw changing the timer shld be fine. 

5 days later which is today it is mended! went all the way to the service shop and check and bring it back. FYI the service shop is not near frm where we live…. anw… so finally happpily set it up, do all the neccesary and everything is working well! for 10 mins… 

i do a 20 mins one after it ring and BUM! problem…. again….. the timer stops at 10mins and dun move anymore though ticking continues….. irritated… frm being able to bake cupcake a week ago till now stil worry bout the stupid timer….. it is real disappointment…

 Change my thinking: well… at least we finally have an oven now! after those two super big useless built in one that we stored long time ago and the other one taken from aunt. hmmm i definitely do learn something here ya? treat it as a lesson learnt. 

Lesson learnt: 

bf was right we should have bring it to where we bought it and do a one to one exchange since the road show is still on!!! highly possible we can do tat thought metro dun really sell this kinda electronical thingies one but hey! we bought it here it has problem here we are…. where it was bought there it should be return if faulty when first used…… 

SECOND “disaster” - new singtel modem wireless lost connection consistently… 

either blurly or without too much thinking my mummy my sister and i agreed tat singtel guy who came knocking at our door ard 9pm to change to the latest modem which provide free mio tv and watever 200mbps for internet connection… 

happily use the new wireless connection after it was installed yest and BUM! the connection was damn idiotic… it either go to 3 bars most of the time, which we stil can bear with it, it sometimes goes to one bar, which is getting somehow irritaitng for us becuz the internet is really slow in one bar,  or LOST CONNECTION! that is DAMN IRRITATING! 

we have to go down off on all the switch linking to tat damn modem and wait for connection to appear again….. from thinking tat we can have a much much faster internet connection to now tis freaking slow connection tat may break anytime…… tat s reallly disappiointing….. 

Change my thinking: at least… i still have internet to use now ya? good enough to allow me to blog means still bearable… than those ppl who dun have interenet at all or who have a super duper slow modem tat will took them a whole day to load. and ah ha! more lessons to learn here.

Lesson Learnt: 

If everything is stil working fine…. dun change it unless you cannot bear with its flaws anymore. which in our case, ya the connection recently before this modem is installed is really slightly slower than whn it was in its best speed so we thought changing could help make it better…. but not NOW tat it is worse than before! whn it gives us even more trouble…. 

ask carefully if this latest thingy suits you…. this applies to many things actually. i did use this on some client recently i rmb.. or tat i mention it to someone else. some of the clients who wanna reno their house needa chose the paint for the wall and the laminates for the furniture and they will ask for the latest design, but helo…. if the latest design is flowery bright and you actually prefer cozier simplified pattern you will rather chose the old laminates, which are still very nice and appealing or chose this bright flowery design tat you will totally get sick and tired of? latest design is jus to inform you that hey! we have this design in the family so now there s more design to consider and not tat you need the latest design…. same goes to clothes and many things else. 

back to our case. this new modem have to be put downstairs near the fibre optic whatever thingy, but all the computers and laptops that need this wireless connection from the modem is all at the second floor! and the only way to have the fastest speed is to use the lan cable to connect to the modem but wireless can only get a max of  70mbps! more than half slower than the 200 mbps you can get from the lan cable which we dun use now beuz modem is downstairs and computers/ laptops are all upstairs…. so now we really rather hav our old modem back…… 

THIRD “disaster” - Renovated room STILL cannot finish putting whatever needed to be put in….

i finally renovated my room!! damn awesome it appears almost 90 percent of how i thought it will look like =) but…

it still doesnt have enough space for me to put store all my artworks and some more things! 

Change my thinking: well at least i have a super nice room now if i dun think bout those things tat can’t be stored. =) i am all ready for school! and yes i definitely learn sth here and sth to remind my clients ( my daddy clients i mean, it the same anw) 

Lesson learnt:

always bring out ALL the things you wanna kep in the room and make sure the measurements on the draft is enough for you to store everything smartly. 

check, double check and triple check esp if the job is a big big one. 

alright… tats about all… well it seems to work ya? =)

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25th July 2012 i shall do such ceramic to put in my future home! ^.^ haha haven been keeping my promise again despite putting tumblr as one of the open tab in Google Chrome cuz i have no idea why google chrome dun open all the tabs i had set -.- haha such an excuse eh x) anw =) shall jus write down watever i can rmb ^-^ Lesson Learnt: If there’s will, there’s nth called impossible. =) turning 22 tmr and i have been helping daddy the whole day today haha such a good way to remind me that i am growing up. most of my job is to in charge of wats going on wat to be done and carry those dismantled cabinets which are equal to old heavy dusty chipped boards and ply woods and etc with my uncle’s Bangladesh worker. i was so impressed by the amount of strength he has! he is just like a hulk to me hahax. sth tat he can use one hand to carry, i cun even use two hands to carry! so i aimed to carry sth that he can carry with one hand by using my two hands. and i did it! muaha…. i m sure watever tat i had carried isnt the max i can carry but carrying a slightly heavier stuff everytime i return to carry it is quite a fun challenge. FYI, we have been walking frm the household to the lift… frm the lift to the lorry for almost a hundred time.  it was actually lesser than the number of times i had walked tat time whn dismantling my now-renovated room. i carried everything by myself frm my room to the first floor of my house and from there to the void deck and to the van. i m lucky i have a maid who can help me afterwards =)  No matter how little a person had helped. Do always fel grateful. because without tat person, imagine the amt of workload you STILL have to do =) my maid is petite and she cun carry lotsa big heavy long wood but she can carry the rest! in anyway, she has lighten my job no matter how much percent it weighs.  air con dismantling must must be dismantled by aircon ppl! cuz if you duno anything bout aircon, you anyhow dismantle it, the gas will surely leak. it works the same way for installing aircon in the house. =) and it links to the rest of the aircon in the house.  recently jus finish watching a hong kong drama series called Bottle Passion. other than learning tat bad ppl wil have bad endings, bf learnt sth too haha tat i din really notice x) once you have a true love in your whole life, it doesnt matter if you al grow old together or die together so long as you once have it, it doesnt matter a life time… =)  lots more i have learnt but tats all i can rmb =) keke one more hour before i turn 22 ^-^ my wishes are stil the same and one day they will come true i m pretty sure =) and there’s one thing i wanna say! thank you eveyone who had been planning how to celebrate my bdae with me =D the blur me seems ruin some surprises abit eh x)) i love you al so much =) 

25th July 2012

i shall do such ceramic to put in my future home! ^.^

haha haven been keeping my promise again despite putting tumblr as one of the open tab in Google Chrome cuz i have no idea why google chrome dun open all the tabs i had set -.- haha such an excuse eh x)

anw =) shall jus write down watever i can rmb ^-^

Lesson Learnt:

If there’s will, there’s nth called impossible. =) turning 22 tmr and i have been helping daddy the whole day today haha such a good way to remind me that i am growing up. most of my job is to in charge of wats going on wat to be done and carry those dismantled cabinets which are equal to old heavy dusty chipped boards and ply woods and etc with my uncle’s Bangladesh worker. i was so impressed by the amount of strength he has! he is just like a hulk to me hahax. sth tat he can use one hand to carry, i cun even use two hands to carry! so i aimed to carry sth that he can carry with one hand by using my two hands. and i did it! muaha…. i m sure watever tat i had carried isnt the max i can carry but carrying a slightly heavier stuff everytime i return to carry it is quite a fun challenge. FYI, we have been walking frm the household to the lift… frm the lift to the lorry for almost a hundred time. 

it was actually lesser than the number of times i had walked tat time whn dismantling my now-renovated room. i carried everything by myself frm my room to the first floor of my house and from there to the void deck and to the van. i m lucky i have a maid who can help me afterwards =) 

No matter how little a person had helped. Do always fel grateful. because without tat person, imagine the amt of workload you STILL have to do =) my maid is petite and she cun carry lotsa big heavy long wood but she can carry the rest! in anyway, she has lighten my job no matter how much percent it weighs. 

air con dismantling must must be dismantled by aircon ppl! cuz if you duno anything bout aircon, you anyhow dismantle it, the gas will surely leak. it works the same way for installing aircon in the house. =) and it links to the rest of the aircon in the house. 

recently jus finish watching a hong kong drama series called Bottle Passion. other than learning tat bad ppl wil have bad endings, bf learnt sth too haha tat i din really notice x)

once you have a true love in your whole life, it doesnt matter if you al grow old together or die together so long as you once have it, it doesnt matter a life time… =) 

lots more i have learnt but tats all i can rmb =) keke one more hour before i turn 22 ^-^ my wishes are stil the same and one day they will come true i m pretty sure =) and there’s one thing i wanna say! thank you eveyone who had been planning how to celebrate my bdae with me =D the blur me seems ruin some surprises abit eh x)) i love you al so much =) 

haha i break my promise -.- din update very often eh =l 

anw keke so jus done a big favour for daddy it was actually a small case but anw it became big. 

lesson learnt:

do not help someone half-heartedly

do not help someone half-way

do not leave a problem without solution/ verdict

have a will and you will definitely reach your DESTINATION! 

okies slp first next time thn elaborate on the above =)

the-absolute-best-posts:  Submitted by asummerstateofmind Follow this blog, you will love it on your dashboard if the above is not photoshopped it is damn awesome! anw… tired… lazy… sianed… now haha lesson learnt: Dun be lazy!! seriously no doubt i m a workaholic, i really m very lazy… so ironic but so true. i have so many things to do on hand but i m so lazy to even walk a few steps to take my waterbottle… stretch a little to reach out for that watercolour palette so that i can be forced to do some watercolour painting and sit up straight on my chair to avoid hunching back… when you are lazy you get nothing done!  No point feeling rushy in a train (unless it breaks down. ) so jus chill-lax, rest… read a book or play a game… why? because no matter how late or rushy you are, the train is already riding its fastest! and a 15 minutes train ride means 15 minutes, it wun change (unless the train breaks down) if you are late you can jus wait for the train to reach the station you wanna alight and run or walk faster to your destination. same goes to a bus ride (if you choose to take a bus, which are usually very unpredictable).  always think of the bright side. i think my bf is gonna b a master of that. yest we attended the photography competition prize presentation cum talk. it was a freaking long talk that lasts for 6 hours plus. i guess many will wanna leave half way but many were shortlisted entrants so no choice have to wait for the talk to finish before the prize presentation starts. bf sister asked ” are you gonna spend your sunday with jeanne lik tat?” and bf replied ” if not because of this i may not even get to see her today… ” *smiles* =) always shoot sth (take a photo of sth) with a different eye, different view, different thoughts. why? let say there is 5 photographers who stand at the same spot as you do, all 5 shoot at the same subject matter, all 5 is gonna achieve almost identical photographs. what makes yours more outstanding? ha! tat’s wat you have to find, think and shoot =) find sth tat others usually wun notice. this applies with many things, almost everything whn you ned to submit sth of the same subject matter. wat we always hear in school wat makes your work an A grade work than a B grade work? 

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if the above is not photoshopped it is damn awesome! anw… tired… lazy… sianed… now haha lesson learnt:

Dun be lazy!! seriously no doubt i m a workaholic, i really m very lazy… so ironic but so true. i have so many things to do on hand but i m so lazy to even walk a few steps to take my waterbottle… stretch a little to reach out for that watercolour palette so that i can be forced to do some watercolour painting and sit up straight on my chair to avoid hunching back… when you are lazy you get nothing done! 

No point feeling rushy in a train (unless it breaks down. ) so jus chill-lax, rest… read a book or play a game… why? because no matter how late or rushy you are, the train is already riding its fastest! and a 15 minutes train ride means 15 minutes, it wun change (unless the train breaks down) if you are late you can jus wait for the train to reach the station you wanna alight and run or walk faster to your destination. same goes to a bus ride (if you choose to take a bus, which are usually very unpredictable). 

always think of the bright side. i think my bf is gonna b a master of that. yest we attended the photography competition prize presentation cum talk. it was a freaking long talk that lasts for 6 hours plus. i guess many will wanna leave half way but many were shortlisted entrants so no choice have to wait for the talk to finish before the prize presentation starts. bf sister asked ” are you gonna spend your sunday with jeanne lik tat?” and bf replied ” if not because of this i may not even get to see her today… ” *smiles* =)

always shoot sth (take a photo of sth) with a different eye, different view, different thoughts. why? let say there is 5 photographers who stand at the same spot as you do, all 5 shoot at the same subject matter, all 5 is gonna achieve almost identical photographs. what makes yours more outstanding? ha! tat’s wat you have to find, think and shoot =) find sth tat others usually wun notice. this applies with many things, almost everything whn you ned to submit sth of the same subject matter. wat we always hear in school wat makes your work an A grade work than a B grade work? 

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robot-heart: Quan bufin temps i vents (by Ibai Acevedo) it will be really cool to try a parachute i guess =) i think tat feeling will be really unique too… seeing the world at the highest possibility and entering it from the top…. a moment to think bout nth and jus bout how wonderful life is….  Lesson learnt: nth can beats communicating. regardless if it’s r/s… family…. business…. frenz…. even pets… hahax no one knows what you are thinking till you say them out. but of cuz you mus think bout the consequence of saying it out too. i have always tot of how it will be like if we are all sims and tat anyone can know wat you are thinking from the bubble that pops up from your head. thn i thought it will be really great cuz guys no ned to propose to gals, daughters no ned to lie to daddy bout where she is going…. ppl who obstructed your exit in an mrt noe tat you are alighting soon without you having to say anything…. but…. wats bad is everyone will noe exactly wat you are thinking. such as “you are so ugly” ” you have a really ugly hair style” ” i wanna beat you up” ” you this ******” etc…. so up till now i stil think tat thinking is damn retarded hahax. so anw this oso applies in surgery. i m glad tat the surgeon who extract my wisdom teeth had been talking to me on and off it keps my mind focus on thinking bout wat he says and it makes me fel safer haha.  when you duno how things will turn out to be… jus pull through one minute… thn five minutes…. soon you will realise tat it s over and done with…. =) many atimes we are so stress bout sth but you jus ned the belief and the will to strive through… it will definitely be done….. jus lik tat day whn we are so demoralised from the amt of time left to complete the painting of the three pillars in vivo’s franc franc but tadah! we still ultimately finished it =) cuz the reality s tat we mus complete it in anyway eh. so wat we can do is jus kep telling ourselves that we can finish it! cuz we will. and yap…. in an operation tat you will be awake through out…. this pulling thru of time slowly but surely is the only way to “survive” through the op. you will ultimately be out of the op room eh =)  find sth to focus on whn you are in pain! haha i m alway grateful that the dental has soft music for me to put my attn on… same as my facial place. whn i m in great pain i jus hav to catch the softest part of the music and tat’s gd enough to kep my attention away from the pain for at least a 10%? keke better than nth….  smile and the situation will be better by fifty percents. many ppl jus duno how to smile in bad situation and in disputes but the power of a smile and some humour is all tat needs to be done… =)  shall have 3 days at home for my wound to be settle. really have to plan the time well eh cuz there are quite afew things tat i wanna do. =)

robot-heart:

Quan bufin temps i vents (by Ibai Acevedo)

it will be really cool to try a parachute i guess =) i think tat feeling will be really unique too… seeing the world at the highest possibility and entering it from the top…. a moment to think bout nth and jus bout how wonderful life is…. 

Lesson learnt:

nth can beats communicating. regardless if it’s r/s… family…. business…. frenz…. even pets… hahax no one knows what you are thinking till you say them out. but of cuz you mus think bout the consequence of saying it out too. i have always tot of how it will be like if we are all sims and tat anyone can know wat you are thinking from the bubble that pops up from your head. thn i thought it will be really great cuz guys no ned to propose to gals, daughters no ned to lie to daddy bout where she is going…. ppl who obstructed your exit in an mrt noe tat you are alighting soon without you having to say anything…. but…. wats bad is everyone will noe exactly wat you are thinking. such as “you are so ugly” ” you have a really ugly hair style” ” i wanna beat you up” ” you this ******” etc…. so up till now i stil think tat thinking is damn retarded hahax. so anw this oso applies in surgery. i m glad tat the surgeon who extract my wisdom teeth had been talking to me on and off it keps my mind focus on thinking bout wat he says and it makes me fel safer haha. 

when you duno how things will turn out to be… jus pull through one minute… thn five minutes…. soon you will realise tat it s over and done with…. =) many atimes we are so stress bout sth but you jus ned the belief and the will to strive through… it will definitely be done….. jus lik tat day whn we are so demoralised from the amt of time left to complete the painting of the three pillars in vivo’s franc franc but tadah! we still ultimately finished it =) cuz the reality s tat we mus complete it in anyway eh. so wat we can do is jus kep telling ourselves that we can finish it! cuz we will. and yap…. in an operation tat you will be awake through out…. this pulling thru of time slowly but surely is the only way to “survive” through the op. you will ultimately be out of the op room eh =) 

find sth to focus on whn you are in pain! haha i m alway grateful that the dental has soft music for me to put my attn on… same as my facial place. whn i m in great pain i jus hav to catch the softest part of the music and tat’s gd enough to kep my attention away from the pain for at least a 10%? keke better than nth…. 

smile and the situation will be better by fifty percents. many ppl jus duno how to smile in bad situation and in disputes but the power of a smile and some humour is all tat needs to be done… =) 

shall have 3 days at home for my wound to be settle. really have to plan the time well eh cuz there are quite afew things tat i wanna do. =)

i shld make this a daily practice =)

really really long since i last posted! really haven been following my new year resolution well but progressing =) so anw really wanted to follow this goal of tumblring everyday on lessons i have learnt. i am someone who believe that everyone who enter your life is a teacher and everything that happens in your life is a lesson. i believed that i learnt alot everyday, so does everyone, just that they didn’t note them down and thus slowly forget about them.

Have you eaten a new prata today in a new prata shop and realised that you are such a mountatin tortoise not to realise that you had missed out that prata shop all this while? well… that’s a lesson learnt isn’t it? you learnt that there s a prata shop that serve really nice prata! =D so anw this is what i learnt yest =)

Lesson Learnt:

frm defu lane to upp thomson you can take CTE route to SLE and out to upp thomsom road. there s a very friendly coffe shop at the corner. what do i meant by friendly coffee shop, is that the hawkers there are really nice and helpful with nice welcoming smiles =) and they pack your food nicely.

It is alright if you had made a mistake, so long as you have a reason for the mistake and that mistake make things better than worse and that mistake aren’t fatal and aren’t harmful to anyone. 

You mus treat each sentence in an email frm a client properly, make sure you clearly understand wat your client want and a general reminder to - not hav unanswered question in mind at all-. even if asking those questions will irritate ppl but that shows hw truly you wanna engage with the person and at the same time make the person be clear of wat he or she want.

Do not leave an important conversation no matter hw tired you are becuz it worth a thosand more than your slp.

always be happy and add in humour to your life because we shld all treat humor mre importantly than anythig else in life. and it changes a person lifestyle too. jokes are really important. try learning a joke a day and say it to someone another day. realise the change… =)

always make someone wanna see you again soon after you leave. perhaps by giving an open ended quiz or riddle. hahax tat’s only an example.

always be 80 percent clear of where you are driving and not where your car is going if you are going to a new place. do not sit on the driver’s seat and expect the car to go to the right route cuz our car are smart but they unfortunately don’t have any brain like we do.

job chances are everywhere always kep a lok out for it and be polite.dun forget your power smile. that changes everything and it always makes things better. learn to smile and give the correct smile at the correct time!

alright, thats for yesterday =) currently in daddy’s factory, did what i have to help and spamming my time in tumblr. =) mei mei jocelyn is returning from vietnam later! FINALLY!!! after 2 weeks!! these 2 weeks passes in a rather weird manner becuz…. after almot 20 years of having a sister by my side, i suddenly felt lik i m the only child in the house! tat feeling is weird. it fels great but empty at the same time =l feeling great is strange. feeling empty i can deeply understand, because i really miss my sister… her presence, her noise and our nonsense xD HAHA.

time makes the heart grows fonder. not sure if i said it right but yap yap. after so long of a missing figure at home it really makes us fel empty and a part of us missing….it’s not until a person is gone that you will understand how important that person is in your life.

thats all for now =) shall hope i can tumblr more tonight and that i will kep this practice going ^-^ i guess so long as i do it for 21 days it will become a habit ya? forgotten where i read bout it that if you do a same thing for continuously - 3 multiply by 7 equivalent to 21… - 21 days that thing will become a habit. =)

A new year, A new year resolution(s) =D

                           HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE! =D

whn is the last time jeanne post an entry? xD

so a new year starts with reflecting on the previous year =) and moving forward from now this very second =) lets start with reflecting bout the previous year tat has jus ended afew days ago =)

nothing about how ppl smashed window in SMRT or the passing on of the person that created this gadget that i am using now to type this post, but how much jeanne had grown in year 2011 =) not in terms of height and age of cuz -.- ( i dun wanna grow any taller eh and definitely not reminding myself that i had owned a key necklace x) ) so i had went thru so much from being a student to a permanent teacher and back to a student again =) , i met so many ppl and learnt so much from them, i experienced deaf on one ear for a month plus, i turned 21, i killed a ladybird with my own hands for the first time, i board the longest flight in my life, i felt snow on my hand, and if i continue… the lists will go non stop, so… i shall write my reflection in terms of messages now =)

Dear mummy,

谢谢你每次都给我你 110％ 的支持, and always giving me the best advice i could ever have. loving me with all you could and giving me the best you can… i have always been glad-full to be able to help you up with all my might and share your burden in this family all these years, it sure was tiring but as long as everyone is happy, i tot it all pays well =) … so mummy dun worry ^-^

i dunno how i can thank you in supporting me in this new relationship… this relationship sure is a tough journey and without your support i would have collapsed long time ago… it is a new chapter of my life and it is a new chapter of daddy and your life too… although daddy isn’t ready to flip to this chapter yet i thank you for walking this chapter with me this far… It must have been hard for you to lie with me many times and hiding the truth from daddy… although you always put your best smile infront of me… i know… there is always a percentage of bitterness in it. But without hesitating you always swallowed both sweet and bitterness… only asking for the best happiness for your daughter…

i wanna tell you mi mi, because of your blessing i m really a happy girl experiencing another different kind of love =) i dunno how i can thank you for that… on top of that, i wanna say sorry to you… sorry if i couldn’t give you the same amount of time i have always given you… but as i grow up i found that all i can give everyone now is quality time and whenever i can give you all some quantity time… i really really treasure them…

i also wanted to thank you for spending so much money on our facial and feeling sad when there is no improvement. When we are anxious for our skin you are even more anxious than us. My new year resolution is to study as hard as the last semester =) so that i can still get my bursary and continue to support myself economically =D and hopefully save some of them too ^-^

lastly mi mi 我爱你 =D time spent with you may decrease but my love to mimi will never ever decrease k =’) hope mimi will have a great year ahead =)

Dear Daddy,

i am sorry… other than sorry… i dunno what other words i can use to describe my feelings to you… i am sorry daddy for growing up being such a dishonest girl… you must had felt really sad and disappointed if you know your daughter is such a liar… i din want to lie but i dun wan daddy to be angry, keep thinking, and frown either…

many a times now… i would have rather daddy do what you did to me when i was a small girl… holding a cane on one hand and holding my little hand on the other, with the most disappointing eyes on your strictest face and caned me… leaving a red and painful mark on my small hand but an even more painful one in your heart… asking me ” will you still lie next time? ” i… shook my head…

although i am as disappointing the very time daddy say no to my relationship… just like a rising balloon that burst and fall… i felt totally empty… i tot daddy will nod head and give me an assuring smile but… daddy had actually unconsciously stopped me from experiencing a diffn kind of happiness i have never experienced before. From that moment… i keep asking myself why good girls have to cry to slp upteen nights…

i know daddy is doing me good… although… no one will agrees that crying to slp is healthy and increasing of heartbeat constantly (due to lying) is good…i understand daddy’s worries, daddy’s shielding me from as much threats and daddy’s unbearable of letting me go… but if you never let a bird out from the cage to fly, it won’t experience how flying is like and won’t see how big the world is… it may get injured but it may not too… if it never experience how injured is like it will never know how it feels.

my new year resolution, is to say lesser lies to daddy and be your honest girl eventually… i hope daddy will not be angry whenever i am honest to you… and my wish is that one day daddy will ask me about aik chuan instead of me telling daddy… and my greatest wish is when i can tell you honestly that daddy, i have a boyfriend.

on top of that daddy, thank you for lending me car almost whenever i need it, asking me how i m doing in sch and in work and driving me whenever you have the time to when i need. Despite that many tears dropped these two years were because of my guilty-ness towards daddy and what daddy said, you are forever the best daddy in my world. =) thank you too for always involving me in your projects, although it brought lotsa scars and bruises on my hands and legs, lotsa tiring days and even more filled up timetable to me, the life experiences that i was exposed to is as invaluable too. 

although i know you won’t be seeing this post, i always hope that this quote is true ” whenever you say a silent thank you, the person will feel it. ” thank you daddy i love you =) may this year be a smooth year for you =)

Dearest Grandma,

=D May health and happiness be with you this whole year! last year has been quite a tough year for you too =) but regardless of what we will always be there for you and support you all the way =)

thank you for still cooking for us constantly ^-^ i love you grandma and i had a great bdae with grandma last year =D my new year resolution is to eat as many dinner at home with you as possible despite of staying in hall ^-^ and continues to accompany grandma for your three monthly injection and hospital consultation whenever i am free on your appointment days =)

Dearest sister/dude/idiot/whatever x), 

firstly, haha thank you for that touching msg in fb =) it inspires me to write my resolution this way too x) tadah~~

to be honest i felt most comfortable with you in this world x) you saw all the unglams of me and vice versa x) we have the funniest jokes as if we are two laughing bones that whenever it joins, it will start laughing keke well you get what i m trying to say ya? x)

thank you so much for reading my super duper unpleasant looking assignment and proof reading them without complaining at all! =D more to come more to come *hint hint* x) keke i m glad that i could help you up in your assignments too as since you step into upper sec, i din have that kinda time and knowledge to like guide you like how big sister do (you know… lik giving younger sister tuition every week that kind) cuz my academic isnt that A+ ya know it eh. work hard k =) u are a smart girl ( at least smarter than me x) ) i m sure you can strive thru this year and the next year as well =)

thank you too for living on with the fact that your sister has a boyfriend… =) putting up with my tight timetable and my disappearing at home becuz of staying in hall… my resolution is to have a sister day every month =) haha give me a date! i guess since my bdae and ur bdae falls on 26th of june and july so…. every 26th shall be sister day bah =) blink your eyes means you agreed x) hax gotcha! =D

so gonna be mushy here but… i love you sis =) whether or not you will grow taller than me or not you are still the best younger sister in my world =) hope you will have a happy year ahead =D

Dearest dear,

What can i say… but thanking you for appearing in my life… you mixed up my life with happiness and sadness and because of this mixing up it makes me treasure this relationship even more…

you have given me the love i never had before, making me feel like a princess i have never dreamt of and accompanying me like a talking shadow…

thank you for being such a wonderful boyfriend with such a high limitation of understanding… because of your understanding it gives me the courage to persevere in this relationship. i have been so afraid to get into relationship as i know i can’t give my partner quantity time because i m such a busy girl… but you always tolerate with my super inflexible schedule ( so inflexible that because of me you din even get to watch a single movie in this long holiday =(… ) and my limited time whenever we met…

thankyou for making me feel so welcome in the nice second family that you bring me to on the first day when i m your girlfriend =) you all always give me the courage to hang on and take care of me like a second daughter. i m honestly touched when uncle gave me the equally big crab’s hand ( i dunno what it is called =l ) as mei mei and you all involved me to all family’s events. i m sorry i can’t dine with you all often and have to turn down your all’s invitation to dinners with you all. but i tot times spent with everyone is really warm =)

thank you for being such a lovely boyfriend… you give me the care and concerns that only mummy can give x) you worry for me every time i helped daddy or when i m sick or when i m alone, etc that even i din worry so much… you taught me how to take care of myself that since young till now, if there isn’t your appearance in my life, i may had grown up totally like the son of the house x) putting it in a more unpleasant way, is that you reminded me that, i am a girl… =’) you dunno that you are the greatest gift i ever have in my life…

you always assured me that you will be there and never leave me but you always tell me that future is future no one can tell… but dear, whether if my hair will turn white with you or not… x) you are still the best gift in my life. i love you dear =D happy 13th monthsary ^-^

my new year resolution is to spend as much quality time as i can with dear and attend all dear’s family events =)

Dearest Tong lei,

eversince tong lei have a partner and eventually i have a partner too, time spent with you greatly decreased er… cuz we have to juggle among family, boyfriend, and friends from uni/poly/sec…x)

but i m glad our relationship never fade =D thank you tong lei for always trying to find time that we can met =) even for jus a short period of time =) sometimes i did reminisce the time when we sms frm morn till night xD hahax! the laughters we have and the tears we drop tgt =) 

i m glad-ful too that tong lei have grown to be an even stronger girl =D seeing tong lei working in the coffeshop dessert stall honestly makes my heart ache er =’) but at the same time warmth my heart too… the tai tai princess who like to shop shop like tai tai and sit on the “throne” like a princess de tong lei even walked around bugis with me in t-shirt and shorts! =’D

Huggs tong lei =) once a tong lei, forever a tong lei ^-^ i m glad tong lei has overcame one of the hardest part of your life these three years… =) i will overcome mine now de =) and stay as strong as tong lei =) my new year resolution is to met up with tong lei other than glisten inc’s bdaes ^-^ i love you tong lei and you know it will never end and! i will never ever forget my dear tong lei de bdae de k! xD keke may this year be a year full of happiness to you =D

Dearest gLiStEn.Inc,

similarly, once a gLiStEn.InC member forever a gLiStEn.InC member =D suddenly tot of our group name… actually… why glisten inc? xD and i forgotten that it was me who give us such a cranky name -.-

but i tot it speaks quite a truth eh =) glisten = shine. i tot each of us really did shine in our own diffn light all these years eh =D you all uds what i meant rite x) heex

but that oso means that we are all busying in our own individual world too… chances of meeting up even for birthdays are getting lesser too but it is totally fine er =) so long as we know each other is always there for each other ^-^ this group is a group of ppl i treasure alot in my life too =) since pri sch i tot i will jus live my sch days alone… but you all changes my sch life =) 5 years since we parted from northvista and we are there for one another =)

my new year resolution is that i can celebrate each of our bdae with everyone and oso small meeting ups maybe for k boxing or jus tea breaks in a even smaller groups =D May this year be a year of joy and smoothness =D take care k =))

Dear Artarantula,

haha that means the 18 of us that stuck with one another for 3 years in nafa ^.^

Oi!! dun met up soon i will forget how you all look k! xD hahahax x)

that will never happens lah =) although our annual meet ups instead of 18, but jus 3 turns up… i uds that getting all 18 to meet up is really hard =) esp when half of us are teachers now! =D i hope you all are doing STILL fine =) i uds how hard being a teacher is keke we all knew that =) but we still strive our best and pull through wherever we are =)

when i went back to NAFA and see the dirty floor of our studio xD it really makes me miss the times we laugh and cry and hooray in the studio =) sneaking into our comp lab and missed how we eat at the corridor every mon x)

my new year resolution this year will be =D to have a successful annual meet up =D at least once? x) i love you girls =D take care and all the best k =D

Dear EMM MEHH~,

xDD HAHAHA! jus thinking bout tat name makes me laugh lik an idiot infront of the comp xD kekeke

six more days!! and we will have to run another marathon! i tot i m really lucky to have new classmates like you all =D who see my unglams in such a short period of time -.- and of cuz old classmates whom i will never get sick and tired of looking at xDD and whom i m am even more grateful to have. =D You all had accompanied me all the way from nafa year one till now =) it jus makes me smile seeing you all in sch everyday ^-^

“coffee is coffee! tea is tea!! you cannot mix one!! dun anyhow mix lah!” who says that! xD tat uncle in the coffee show ah not me x) keke =) i tot it was a nice combination of the class with ppl coming from diffn tertiary sch or same tertiary sch but diffn course =) we met up and become classmates in this drama class that we are all so unfamiliar to, a totally new subject but we are all so comfortable with each other and shy at all to express ourselves! =D doing actions and saying things that even our parents never see before x)

may this year be full of joy in class and a much smoother year than the previous one! x)

Dearest students,

haha i dunno how many of you will read this =) but if you ever get to read this long post with bad english x) i hope you all had a great sch reopening today and will enjoy your sch days =)

same thing, i hope all of you can do well in your exams this year =) i m sure you all had done a good job last year ^-^ but i m sure too that everyone can do an even better this year =) you all may take arts this year or may not, it doesnt matter =) once my students always my student and i can only hope for the best for all of you regardless if you are from which school =D

there is no naughty student in my dictionary =) only students who have to put in slightly more effort and students who need a diffn way to learn =) as there are 40 of you in a class in average, and a teacher can’t possibly teach in 40 diffn ways ya x) so it is very impt for you to tell us what we can help you and the most impt of all =) help yourself! =D may all of you have a good and fruitful year ahead and strive all exams with myriad of colours =))

Dearest me,

=) you wrote such a long new year resolution this year ^-^ you better try to follow them as close as possible ah =D one resolution for myself x) is to have more time with myself =)

Dearest everyone,

May this year be full of joy, happiness, peace and harmony to everyone =D live everyday with smiles and laughters ^.^ without anyone of you i met in life, i wun be the jeanne i m today =) thankyou for coming into my life and ho hO HO HAPPY NEW YEAR! =D

i wonder if i had done it…. =l this question of asking who exactly am i…. is one big question that many couldn’t answer… but if you put it as who exactly WAS i, the answer is actually as simple as i was a baby who was innocent as a rose and knowing nothing about this world isnt’ it?

i wonder if i had done it…. =l

this question of asking who exactly am i…. is one big question that many couldn’t answer… but if you put it as who exactly WAS i, the answer is actually as simple as

i was a baby who was innocent as a rose and knowing nothing about this world

isnt’ it?

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